Home is Everywhere:

Adventure, Growth, Parenthood

Explore Our Journey

Hi guys, welcome to our website. We are so glad you’re here!

Our names are Ife and Bori. We decided to create this website because when we moved to Germany we encountered a lot of obstacles that no one had warned us about and we didn’t have the information on how to overcome these. We have documented everything we have learnt so far in the hopes that it will help someone regardless of which stage of your journey you are at. We will continue to document our journey here in Germany (and wherever else we may live) as well as giving you helpful information on living abroad.

A bit about us, we met at a party in 2019 and not to be cliche but it was love at first sight for both of us. We became official in February 2020 and tied the knot in December 2022. My husband (Max) grew up in Canada and moved to Germany for work in 2019 whilst I (Mia) was living in the United Kingdom. We were in a long distance relationship for 2 and a half years before I moved to Germany in August 2022. In February 2024 we welcomed our first child and have been navigating life as a family of 3 since then.

What to expect from our website

Living abroad: Living the world, loving the journey

This section is dedicated to sharing tips on navigating life as a couple in a different country. We also give some tips that worked for us on how to find and build community. Whether you’re considering a move abroad or already living in a new country, we hope these will help. We also open up about the challenges we’ve faced. Hopefully these help to make the transition smoother.

Life in Germany: Living, Learning and Thriving in Germany

This section explores a wide range of topics that capture the full experience of living in this vibrant country. We cover everything from studying in Germany, finding accommodation to understanding the unique aspects of German culture, traditions, and social norms. We also share our journey of learning the German language, from beginner challenges to fluency. Additionally, we discuss important life milestones, such as getting married in Germany, and the legal considerations that come with it. Whether you’re a student, professional, or a family, this section offers insights into all aspects of life in Germany.

Pregnancy in Germany: Pregnancy in a foreign country

The Pregnancy in Germany section takes you through the entire journey of being pregnant in Germany, offering insights from the first positive pregnancy test to the birth of your baby. We walk you through the prenatal care process, including doctor visits, ultrasounds, and navigating the German healthcare system. You'll find helpful tips on what to pack in your hospital bag based on our experience, ensuring you’re prepared for delivery day. We also cover important post-birth topics such as applying for Kindergeld (child benefit) and Elterngeld (parental allowance), providing a clear understanding of the financial support available to families in Germany. This section is designed to give you a comprehensive guide to pregnancy and parenthood in Germany, easing the transition into this exciting new chapter.

“Not everyone will understand your journey. That’s fine. It’s not their journey to make sense of. It’s yours.” - Zero Dean